Thursday, September 6, 2012

UNDERSTANDING THE WORKING PATTERN OF AN INDIVIDUAL


If we look into the corporate world today, then we experience that the biggest challenge is to place the right person at the right place at the right time. If you see the information technology world, it is visible that the manpower turnover rate is killing. It is the greatest challenge to the manager to understand and manage the people at work. It is very challenging to train them in uni-direction.

Once, I was conducting my firewalk seminar. In that the director of the company, Sanjay Bhatia, narrated a motivational story. He explained that a company is like a boat and all of them are sailing in it. Now the boat will go ahead only when everybody rows in the same direction and everybody puts the energy that they have instead of watching who is putting what kind of energy and in what ratio.This story was highly motivational, but do you think everybody took it in the same spirit? No. There were many corporate executives from all parts of the country. 
Everybody would have taken this story according to their own paradigm. If you refer to Pareto’s analysis, who is an Italian Economist, you will find that 20% of the employees contribute to 80% of complaints and dissatisfactionIf we focus on 20% of the employees, 80% of the problems will be solved. Employee related problems can be tackled and eliminated if we understand the pattern of working of every individual. If any individual is posted at the right place or the place of his own interest, there will be job enrichment and enhancement in efficiency. We must know that the most important step is to identify an individual. Even the father of scientific management F. W. Taylor clearly says that we must identify the efficient workers and inefficient workers. Identification of employees leads to identification of human behaviour. Therefore, it is our primary duty to identify the workers and subsequently provide the work. Even parents must understand what their children deserve. Sometimes parents become unreasonable with their children.


Every individual has different patterns of life. Even in my seminars, when I crack jokes, some people laugh like anything, while some don’t. Earlier, I used to be a visiting professor at the Institute of Chartered Accountants of India. There also if I used to explain any concept, then some people would be very happy while some would not. Several times I used to think why there was a differentresponse for the same action. It is because every individual has different patterns of life.

Let us understand the different behaviours of an individual.

1. Process-oriented

Some people are process-oriented. They go step by step. They believe in systems. They believe in mechanisms. They believe in orientation. I am not saying if this is good or bad. I am trying to make you focus on the nature of the person. Accounts people are process oriented. Sales people are goal oriented. Law firms believe that no work is complete unless the paper work is done. Human behaviour varies from individual to individual. Let me tell you about one person who believed in process and function and he gave the world a complete new mode of transportation.

A twelve-year-old boy was going along with his farmer father. He saw a train. He was so inquisitive that he went to the driver of the train and enquired how the train worked. His process based mind thought that if a train could work on a track, then why could not a chariot move on a plain road with a machine and not by horses. This process was settled in his brain. When his father used to think about seeds, soil, fertilisers, his mind used to work on the instrument which could be used in ploughing the fields. He worked in Detroit to repair various machines but there too he used to visualise the process of making a machine cart. At the age of 25 he got married on the condition that his first love would be the process of making a car only and nothing else. Later on, this person used towork in Edison Illuminating Company. He used to work day and night on the process of car manufacturing. On 4 June, 1896 this process based man brought the first car on the road and he was none other than Henry Ford. And today the whole world respects and admires the incredible mechanism produced by Henry Ford’s brain. These kind of people

must be put at functional work.

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Techniques to Eliminate Phobias


1. Develop the alternative demand-oriented perspective

We should always take that word which has a meaning for the buyer. Instead of knowing the product, we should know the value and vision of the product. Eastman Kodak always says, “We preserve beautiful memories.” Revlon is a cosmetics manufacturing company, but they reframe “We are Hope in a Drug Store”.

2. Know exactly what you want


While reframing, we should be very specific. What is our deepest desire and why we must do it? According to ourvision, we go ahead for context reframing. But, destination will only make pathways. In ancient history, the son of a king called Siddhartha visualised his vision above death and sufferings from illness. Then he got the
power to leave his kingdom and subsequently he became the great sage Gautama Buddha. He touched and moved the life of thousands of people in India, China, Burma, Sri Lanka, Tibet, etc. He reframed that the secret of a happy life is not expecting anything from anyone.

3. What pattern you need to change

Focus on the pattern needs to be left and now create an empowering belief to enjoy the changing pattern. This cannot be achieved by one time thought, rather you have to practise it again and again.

4. Condition yourself

To reap the benefits, you and I have to practise it again and again. Then only it will be conditioned. Brain never understands any command unless it is experienced. In my firewalk, I always invest time to condition my participants. Once the masses are conditioned, brain takes action. I told them that the firewalk is a metaphor to their changed physiology. It breaks mental impossibility and will make you experience the fear. The only way to overcome fear is to experience it. That is exactly what firewalk does. Firewalk conditions the state and behaviour which subsequently produces results inspite of terrible fear. Youshould challenge fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear ofnot being good enough, fear of losing positions, fear of not being loved enough, etc. You should break the self-limiting belief. I believe that you can be anything what you wish, such as a businessman, millionaire, etc.

Overcome any kind of unrealistic relationship, which has got no existence today such as a broken relationship. We all had some of our unpleasant experiences in the past and the impact of that past limits us from living a great and playful life.

I condition through firewalk to change the internal representation about any event through internal communication. We all know that even in Mahabharata, Lord Krishna had asked Yudhishtra to reframe the situation of killing Ashwathama, the elephant, for getting an opportunity to kill the great Dronacharya.